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Caring For Yourself as well as Someone Else

A carer is anyone, both children and adults who looks after a family member, spouse or friend who needs help because of their illness, frailty, disability, mental health problem or addiction and is not able to cope without their support.

Whether someone is caring from an ageing parent, or a loved one recovering from surgery, being a carer is demanding both physically and emotionally. Amongst the responsibilities for caring for someone else, it’s essential to not overlook your own well-being. Striking a balance between providing care and self-care is essential to ensure you remain physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy throughout the process.

In this article, we’ll be exploring the ways to care for yourself as well as someone else, which includes self-care tips and care equipment such as profiling beds, that are designed to make care easier.

a lady using her profiling it by herself

For the last 20 years, at Opera Beds we support family members who care for their loved one and find them the best solution for efficient care and enhance quality of life for the user. If you are a carer and considering a profiling bed, get in touch with our team who can help. 

Why it’s important to Prioritise Self-Care for Effective Care Giving

Self-care is essential for individuals who are caring for both themselves and someone else. The role of a caregiver can be physically, emotionally, and mentally demanding. The responsibilities and stress associated with caregiving can accumulate over time, potentially leading to burnout, exhaustion, and a decline in overall well-being. This is why practicing self-care is not just a luxury, but a crucial component of effective caregiving. Here's why:

  1. Sustaining Energy and Health: Caregiving can be physically demanding, involving tasks like lifting, assisting with mobility, and providing personal care. Without proper self-care, caregivers may experience fatigue, sleep deprivation, and physical strain, all of which can negatively impact their health and ability to provide care.
  1. Emotional Resilience: Witnessing the challenges and struggles of the person you're caring for can take an emotional toll. Self-care helps caregivers manage their own emotions and stress levels, preventing emotional burnout and compassion fatigue. By taking care of their emotional well-being, caregivers can provide more empathetic and patient-centred care.
  1. Mental Well-being: Caregivers often juggle multiple responsibilities, make critical decisions, and handle unexpected situations. The constant pressure can lead to increased stress, anxiety, and even depression. Engaging in self-care activities like mindfulness, hobbies, or spending time with friends can help maintain positive mental health.
  1. Quality of Care: When caregivers neglect their own well-being, it can impact their ability to provide high-quality care to the person they're looking after. Fatigue and stress may lead to oversights, errors in medication management, or lapses in attention, all of which could compromise the care recipient's health.
  1. Longevity in Caregiving Role: Caregiving is often a long-term commitment. Sustainable caregiving requires taking breaks, recharging, and maintaining personal interests outside of the caregiving role. Without self-care, caregivers might become overwhelmed and unable to continue providing care over the long run.
  1. Preserving Relationships: Caregiving can strain relationships due to the time and energy it demands. Engaging in self-care can help caregivers maintain connections with friends, family, and their own interests, preventing isolation and maintaining a support network.

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Ways to Care for yourself When You Are a Carer

Caring for someone else often means putting their needs before your own. However, neglecting your well-being can lead to burnout and exhaustion, ultimately affecting your ability to provide quality care.

Here are a few ways to help take care of yourself as well as someone else:

  • Engage in self-compassion: Treat yourself with the same kindness and understand as the person you’re caring for. This helps to navigate mixed feels associated with caregiving.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask for help: Caring can be challenging, asking friends, family or professional carers can offer relief and prevent feeling isolated.
  • Keep doing the things you love: Doing something you’re passionate about can help clear you mind and give you some normality. It can be anything from taking a walk to going shopping.

someone relaxing and doing yoga for some self care


Where to Get Help if You’re Struggling

There are many ways to seek help if you are caring for someone. From general advice and emotional support:

Carer organisations: Carers UK, Carers Trust, Carers Direct

Carers assessment: Carried out by your local council to assess support needs and how they can provide direct support if you qualify.

GP: Speaking to your GP about being a carer can help. Your GP will be able to provide information and advice about the medical condition of the person you’re caring for. They can also direct you to support services from the NHS and other sources.

a lady talking to a nurse

How Care Equipment Can Help Carers

Home adaptations and care equipment are designed to make life easier for carers whilst helping the person being cared for.

Profiling beds

One practical solution that can significantly ease the caregiving journey is the use of profiling beds. These specialised beds are designed with adjustable features that can be tailored to the specific needs of the individual requiring care. The ability to change the bed's height, angle, and position can enhance both the caregiver's and the patient's comfort.

a carer next to a profiling bed

As well as making the user comfortable and well support, profiling care neds are a great solution to help facilitate care by:

Reducing strain on the body: Profiling beds minimise the physical strain on caregivers when transferring, repositioning, or assisting the patient. The adjustable features enable caregivers to find the most ergonomic and safe positions, reducing the risk of injuries. They are also equipped with height adjustment, letting the carer raise and lower the bed to the desired height. This makes it easier and safer when performing on the bed care.

Enhanced User Comfort: For the person receiving care, profiling beds offer increased comfort. Whether adjusting the bed to alleviate pressure points or finding the ideal sleeping angle, these beds contribute to the patient's overall well-being.

Independence and Dignity: Profiling beds empower patients by allowing them to adjust their positions independently. This fosters a sense of autonomy and helps maintain their dignity, as they can control their comfort to a greater extent.

Learn more about how profiling beds help make caregiving easier.


Choosing a profiling care bed for your loved one can help deliver efficient care for both you and them. As well as taking the strain of the demanding challenges associated with being a carer, a profiling bed contributes to enhanced comfort and dignity for the person being cared for.

However, it’s important to find the right balance between caregiving and self-care. By doing so, you’ll be able to provide the best possible care for your loved one whilst safeguarding your own health. 

a carer and there loved one

How Opera Can Help Carers

Here at Opera Beds, we understand that choosing a bed for someone you care for can be daunting. However, our team of profiling bed experts are here to make the process simple, guiding you to the best solution for your loved one’s needs.

Choose how you’d like to get started and start your Opera journey today:

Telephone consultation: Be guided to the best bed by answering a series of questions in less 20-30 minutes. Request a call back here.

Visit our showroom: Try beds and explore the full range 1-1 with an Opera advisor. Choose either a video or in person appointment. Learn more here.

Request a brochure: Browse the full Opera collection with full pricing and ways to order inside. Your brochure can be posted or sent via email. Request yours here.

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